As with most sex work, webcamming doesn’t contain the best reputation. It’s often viewed as exploitation or perhaps a last-resort hustle to debt, but Reed Amber, 26, explains how webcam models are simply your average self-employed freelancers with similar amount of agency and independence anyone else.

Model, producer and co-creator of YouTube channel ComeCurious, Reed is basically the physical embodiment of sex positivity, which she defines as “trying to generate people think that what they’re doing and just what they’re into isn’t wrong, it’s normal and it’s absolutely fine.” She’s a tremendous advocate for removing stigma and taboos around sex, so we swept up with her for more information on webcamming, a distinct sex work that is seldom mentioned.

So why do you believe some men, and in all probability women at the same time, prefer it to porn?
“There’s much free porn that I feel webcamming is a lot more of the personal one-on-one. It is possible to go surfing and find any ol’ stuff, but webcamming is a bit more personal; it’s tailored exactly as to what you would like as well as what you’re searching for. You’re not sharing it with 100 thousand other people. This is your show. Usually you build up a relationship, I talk to you like a friend and i also respect you as a person. ‘How has your entire day been, what did you get from the shops, precisely what are you cooking for dinner…’ it’s such as an online relationship”

…So it’s a lot like the ‘girlfriend experience’?
“Yes, it’s very much like the girlfriend experience. But that also depends upon what the webcam model is a lot like as well as what the person paying is like because we all want different things.”

Have you had avoid a request?
“I’m one with the cam girls who does almost never say no. I’ve always aspired to try interesting things, but that’s not because I felt like I had to. It’s just personally things i might like to do. I want to tick stuff off my list, I wish to try everything once particularly when you are looking for sex positivity. Even though it’s something I’m definitely not into, I’d still have a go. Only didn’t as it, I’d resemble ‘sorry, I’m not really into that.’ But there’s many people that might say no to everything.”

What are the really common requests you will get?
“It is determined by the profile that you setup because when you produce a profile, you are writing a bit bio of you, and look over may be seen as somewhat more ‘out there’. I’m ready to accept anything, like roleplay, so much of the time I recieve roleplay requests, more because I’ve found them fun regardless how unusual or bizarre they’re. What excites me are uncommon and unusual requests which you wouldn’t really run into. Life’s too boring otherwise”

How does someone react whenever you say to them all you do?
“I have a mix of emotions. Mostly people react positively with the way I take a look at it. It’s so different if you’re really shy and timid and quiet about this. It immediately sends out this idea of ‘oh they’re not completely happy with it.’

Basically you are free to become your sex-positive self in your full potential…
“Exactly! That’s where I got my first taste of sex positivity. Experiencing my relationships and going to college I became like ‘woah, nobody thinks generate income do, I’ve got to be weird’. Being a webcam model, I realised everyone is into something else entirely, they just think that they can’t talk about it.”

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